Although the title of this blog actually pretty much says it all, I guess I'd better elaborate a little bit.
Tuesday was the last day of work for me this week, as Thursday to Monday are days off for all because of the easter holidays, and as I took wednesday off (my birthday). Luckily I have the possibility to control my own working hours, within reason and as long as it sums up to at least 7,5 hours a day (pluss lunch), so at 11 am I went to join Mari for her ultrasound investigation. She was 18 weeks pregnant on Tueday and we were looking forward to knowing if we are expecting a girl or a boy. Of course I know that it can sometimes be difficult to visualize the anatomical part in question, and that there will often be some uncertainty involved. FIrst and most important; everything looked ok with the baby as far as it is possible to see with the ultrasound. After having checked the body and organs the doctor went on to confirm that his measurements fitted perfectly with the term-date that we have calculated; September 6th, and then went on to check the gender. He said: "Look, there you can see; it is a girl!" Then Mari, who has felt that it is probably a boy, said: "Oh, so it seems my feeling was wrong.". Then, the doctor, maybe having some experiences with female intuition (or whatever it is) from the past, suddenly looked a bit uncertain and said: "Hmm, wait.... I am not sure after all...." And then he went on, trying to find a good angle with the ultrasound-probe for about 10 more minutes. However, it seemed like the baby has already developed a certain shyness, as he or she managed to hide the section we were trying to grasp a glimpse of through the rest of the investigation. So we ended up booking another ultrasound session in about to months; then it should be easier to find... Actually, it is not really important for me to know the sex of the baby before it is born; I just think it is nice to "talk" to the baby; maybe even use name, if we will have one at that time, and to start relating to the person who will appear one day.
WEll, to avoid this getting waaaaay too long, I will try to keep it shorter. I turned 35 Wednesday, and I have to say I really do not like it, although of course it DOES beat the alternative with more than a horse-length (to use a measurement which you americans probably can relate too... hehe). I didn't celebrate it much, but Mari's sisters and brother stopped by to have some rib marinated in vietnamese style with noodles. REally good! My own sister and brothers were not in town, and they are sometimes louse to remember birthdays. My youngest brother actually didn't remember it at all. My oldest brother hadn't called me at 9 pm. His girlfriend is in France with her sister, and sent me an SMS, congratulating me. Then I decided to do an experiment; I sent her an SMS saying something like: "Thank you for remembering me; which not so many else did!" then I started counting seconds, and before three minutes had passed, my brother was on the line..... hahaha.... What should we have done without the wives and girlfriends to keep the control in our lives??
Yesterday we went to see my grandmom, but I have written a bit about that elsewhere, so I just skip on to today. I went for my first time to a golf-course today. I have hit some golfballs inside a sporting facility here and I have always known I would like golf, as I do like precision-sports, but I have never gotten around to try it before now. It was fun, but of course a lot more difficult that it seems, and even more difficult than I had imagined. To sum it up; I didn't get a hole-in-one. Not even a hole-in-four....
Sigh..I have a long way to go. And I had actually thought that the spring had arrived, but as I was trying the driving range, suddenly it started to snow..... Luckily it was not enough to make it a white day, but still.... The weather here is unpredictable....
The rest of the easter will be spent calmy at home. The weather forecast is bad, so I probably will not do any mountain trip skiing with Timmy. It will have to wait. I could however, maybe finish the work on the last of the three rooms here on the second floor of our house...I hope I find t he energy....Can I borrow some, Lisa?
I will also try to make it to church Sunday, as I try to go to church at least one of the easter holy days.
Well, that was all from me, and for those of you who have not fallen asleep by now; have a great weekend from us here in Norway.